解释非属掩饰不可
沉默也不一定代表心虚
只是
相信包青天的存在
坚持误会会见光死
坚信真相会有大白的一天
可惜
水落 不会石出
反而 只会把石头磨平
甚至把石头冲到更深处
心寒
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Monday, March 28, 2011
孙悟空是个好员工
一直很想跟大家分享这本书，
作者成君忆把佛法和心理学套用在被归类成四大型的我们身上，即
孙悟空（力量型）；
唐憎（完美型）；
猪八戒（活泼型）；
沙和尚（和平型）；
针对各类型详究，让读者更了解自己，也有一些为人处世的建议。
书中把《西游记》里的情节与现实生活相联或对比得恰恰好，
看了才知道说原来可以从这样一个角度来看待《西游记》这部寓言故事，
真的是人生如戏，戏如人生啊~
一句话，好看！
这本书出版了好几年了，但是市面上还找得到的，有兴趣的话不妨看看~ =D
‘代言人’真的不好当。。。
心理的那个结依旧勒得我难以呼吸，一直想找机会解释，脑海里却冒出道歉就等于认错这类想法。
开始时想等对方冷静下来时才去道歉，想想必定会越抹越黑就算了。
日子一久，却不晓得该怎么开口了。
一直在等知道真相的人站出来把事情弄清楚说明白，偏偏当事情发生时个个置身之外，haiz...
不能怪任何人，是你自己嘴巴多。
没有人会去想说一个小小会员的一句话是否就足以构成end result，就算是，也一定会有它的原因，只是会得罪人的话，醒目的人都不会像我酱直话直说。
老实说，心里从来没期望过你们会原谅我，因为我没有被谅解的资格。
当你们不再杯葛我时，天晓得心里那份欣慰……
可是，你们的肚量越大，我就越感到对你们愧疚，所以从此选择孤僻。
以为自己一人做事一人当的时候，才发现正逃避得狼狈，呵。呵。
我的‘为人处世’很多时候也让自己厌恶，尝试去改变，却无所适从，心里的阴影让我寸步难移，却也不移不行啊！
如果我没有把你当朋友，你不会出现在“我的好朋友”文章，而且还被刊登在《知识话报》里头。
如果我没有把你当朋友，小六那年被大家杯葛后，不会当作没一回事。
如果我没有把你当朋友，我不会把最私隐、最裸的心情日记和你分享，而至今你依然是唯一那位。
被背叛的感受我何尝会不了解，小小年纪伤口就被补了再补，那种滋味就会好受吗？
这句埋藏在心里许久的“对不起”一定要告诉你，虽然于事无补。
不确定今天的你还会不会来这里，还是想说，你是我遇过肚量最大的人。
Thursday, March 10, 2011
摇篮手启示
刚从马大华文学会举办的年度大型摇篮手创作歌曲发表演绎会回来。
看着一大班年龄和自己不相上下的人们，为自己的理想不惜付出与牺牲；也有的把自身的经历创作化，希望能借此激励他人，这是多么伟大的一件事啊！
当中印象最深的是蔡睨蒸的《转身》，整个礼堂的人都为他的歌声痴迷，台下鸦雀无声，可以想象吧！主持人称他为十帅少两帅，那两帅是小眼睛和大屁股。但是我认为，或许就是因为他这两帅不全让他成为校园的风云人物吧，慧敏形容得贴切，他身上所散发出来的亲民气息让大家对他疼爱有加。多么幸运的一个人啊！
另外一位就是〈学海报〉举办的创作赛冠军得主，黄祖恩的《画墙》。一个初中生能够把自己的经历用文字表达得如此贴切，又那么感性，我实在不能不给她一个‘赞’啊！看到没，知识不会偏袒任何人，天时地利人和，你就是赢家。
看着一大班年龄和自己不相上下的人们，为自己的理想不惜付出与牺牲；也有的把自身的经历创作化，希望能借此激励他人，这是多么伟大的一件事啊！
当中印象最深的是蔡睨蒸的《转身》，整个礼堂的人都为他的歌声痴迷，台下鸦雀无声，可以想象吧！主持人称他为十帅少两帅，那两帅是小眼睛和大屁股。但是我认为，或许就是因为他这两帅不全让他成为校园的风云人物吧，慧敏形容得贴切，他身上所散发出来的亲民气息让大家对他疼爱有加。多么幸运的一个人啊！
另外一位就是〈学海报〉举办的创作赛冠军得主，黄祖恩的《画墙》。一个初中生能够把自己的经历用文字表达得如此贴切，又那么感性，我实在不能不给她一个‘赞’啊！看到没，知识不会偏袒任何人，天时地利人和，你就是赢家。
歌词中让我感触最深的那段是这样说的：不要往自己身上画一到墙，没有人会去想要跨过那道墙去关心你，自己多难受都只有自己才知道，累积后只会成为伤。
仿佛在跟自己说：
把心门打开吧，委屈不能只往肚里吞，或许有些误会无法解，也不想弄巧反拙，但是不能因此而一支竹杆打翻整艘船啊，把那道墙撤掉吧，不然受苦的只有自己，也没有人会理你，白受罪不碍事，糟的是把自己的人生也赔上了。
把心门打开吧，至少有个可以谈心的地方。
加油祖恩小朋友，希望未来的日子里可以看到更多你那么棒的作品。也想说，那位Jenny小姐把这首歌唱得满不错的，有被感动到啦！
年轻是暂时性的，梦想却可以是一辈子的，不管你的梦想是什么，不管你几岁，勇敢去追寻你的梦吧！别以为你是孤军作战的，外头还有多的是和你一样因为一些所谓的阻碍而原地不动的人。去吧，尽力去实现你的愿望吧，就算最后不成功，至少你尝试过，更何况，成功是可以随你定义的，生活就在流逝中的每一分、每一秒，加油吧，朋友！
心里那种说不出的激动久久不能平息，是……年轻的呼唤吧！
Monday, March 7, 2011
Congratulation buddy!
One of my besties here told me that he is now in a relationship with someone he has known for almost 2 years*.
I hope he wouldn't mind me sharing his story briefly here, sorry guy ! ;P
*Time is not an issue here though, but timing does!
Like I said, they knew each other 2 years to come.
The first year they studied in a same course and class, without any communication, imaginable right.
For the second year, they studying in a another college but different courses, and months ago they staying under the same roof, after an interval of properly 8 months.
Things happened during that period, where each of them had had their own love story to tell.
Until the closer months to come, they falling in love with each other. And here they are couple.
Their story indicates that time comes when it needed to be.
Also, the one suits you the most is always the one beside us without us realizing it.
This is an advantage as we already know each other well. But, not good in the sense that we know each other too well.
I am kinda impressed with the way he try to let us know about it. What he planned to do was that "let's go for a meal and I am going to tell u all...", according to his impliedly delivered message.
Come out, he named both of them and I made a correct shoot.
My first response was shocked and couldn't manage to think properly. I am a primary victim of the aftermath incident and entitled to claim for psychiatric injury...haha
See, anything is possible !!
Honestly speaking, I am so glad that he is sharing the good news with us, intimate friends as he named. I am so proud to have him as one of my best friends. He deserves the purest love on earth.
May all of my friends be showered with joy and love always~
Today is a wonderful day, and so will it be the days to come.
I hope he wouldn't mind me sharing his story briefly here, sorry guy ! ;P
*Time is not an issue here though, but timing does!
Like I said, they knew each other 2 years to come.
The first year they studied in a same course and class, without any communication, imaginable right.
For the second year, they studying in a another college but different courses, and months ago they staying under the same roof, after an interval of properly 8 months.
Things happened during that period, where each of them had had their own love story to tell.
Until the closer months to come, they falling in love with each other. And here they are couple.
Their story indicates that time comes when it needed to be.
Also, the one suits you the most is always the one beside us without us realizing it.
This is an advantage as we already know each other well. But, not good in the sense that we know each other too well.
I am kinda impressed with the way he try to let us know about it. What he planned to do was that "let's go for a meal and I am going to tell u all...", according to his impliedly delivered message.
Come out, he named both of them and I made a correct shoot.
My first response was shocked and couldn't manage to think properly. I am a primary victim of the aftermath incident and entitled to claim for psychiatric injury...haha
See, anything is possible !!
Honestly speaking, I am so glad that he is sharing the good news with us, intimate friends as he named. I am so proud to have him as one of my best friends. He deserves the purest love on earth.
May all of my friends be showered with joy and love always~
Today is a wonderful day, and so will it be the days to come.
p/s : Staying under the same roof (for whatever reason) is a good strategy to gain a lover...=D
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