Tuesday, May 29, 2012

win-win?

Can you make sure all are equal in size all the time?


I know for a fact that it is almost impossible to satisfy every person in life.
But, is there any guidance for me to try not to at least hurt anyone?
Or, those so-called guidance can only be derived from the experiences of me after-hurting someone?
Possibly, otherwise, what is 'life' for?

Monday, May 28, 2012

There's a sun, there's a sunflower

还有不到一天的时间我就暂时上天堂了。

痛苦和煎熬中有遗憾、悔不当初的感觉,同时却也带点成就感,加上那蠢蠢欲动的兴奋分子,和那迫不及待想要出走的心,天使与恶魔交集中。
告诉自己好好享受当下,再煎熬也不过还有那么十几个小时了,剩下的不要想太多,要有信仰,奇迹或许就会出现。(也只能这样盼望了。)

最不喜欢听人家劝自己说“不要灰心,你已经尽你最大的能力了”,或者外语版本的 "Be confident...as long as you have try your best, never get upset when you lose."
The problem is, I'm fed up not simply because of the fact of me losing out, but that of I never try my best, when I always need and have to.
*of course I'm still grateful towards your genuine concern.

When one says that one has tried one's best, does it imply that what s/he gets is the best that s/he can achieved of, which in other words mean that there is no more room for improvement? Well, my position is positive in this regard. And, I feel worst if this is the truth. Of course, one should never overestimate his or her personal capabilities, but equally, one should also never underestimate his/herself, you never know what you can do without trying to pass the threshold afterall.

Not to deny the facts that there are lots of people who always try their best, and everytime they did their best, they are moving on to another level of the best of the best. (This qualifies them for being role models of mine. ) Therefore, interpreting 'trying your best' would also mean that, try your best that you could at the time that you are in. Instead of focusing on 'the best of you', we now turn to the fact of 'the best of you in the circumstances' and this is applicable to all level of challenges. This, nevertheless, seems to bring no significant effect on the above stand. However, when one has really tried s/he best, what s/he can now do is to leave the rest to God.


p/s: God bless you.

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

包青天

被人冤枉你用他的东西,
被人冤枉你拿他的物品,
被人冤枉你陷害他,
被人冤枉你出卖他,
被人冤枉你劈腿,
冤枉种种……

如果说心痛难受,被冤枉更是痛上加痛。
如果以一到十来作标准,生产的难受和痛苦为十,那么被冤枉就是九点九*。
生产的痛你可能会记得一辈子,但是被冤枉的感受是你要忘也忘不了的,而且,它不会随着时间而淡化。
对于生产,男人你可能不懂(国外那个变性生产的‘男人’另当别论),女人也未必完全懂,但是被人冤枉过的男人和女人,你一定有所体会。

哑子漫尝黄蘖味,难将苦口对人言,你,了解吗?
你不需要了解。
只请你不要冤枉无辜的人,如果你也不希望人家冤枉你。

认不认罪,被判死刑的人,有可能是无辜的。
真正的凶手同样可以逍遥法外。
在必要时候“自尊”我可以放下,但是“志气”,不好意思,就算真相没有大白的一天我也不会将就的认了。
不求水落石出,只觉得既来之,则安之,可以这样说吧。

沉默不完全代表默认,它可以是金,无声也可以胜有声。
说是这样说,但是,有谁不曾向现实低头?



*另外零点一是对伟大的母爱的一点敬意,顺便祝全天下的母亲“天天都是快乐的母亲节”!

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

自卑

除了自轻自贱,妄自菲薄,

自卑是什么?

自卑是不看别人,以为别人也看不到自己。

自卑和狂妄自大

可说是鸡生蛋,蛋生鸡之原理,

同样悲哀。


快活


在你有困难的时候,
不要因为那些不关心你、
只会以自己为中心的人而伤心难过;

要因为那些为你着急的人而感到欣慰和感恩,
在这个社会上,
真的没有多少人会把别人的事情当作自己的来处理。

如果你身边有那么的一位,
你必须惜福,更需要惭愧。

以前老师教我们说“必须”和“必需”的分别在于:
前者让你有选择的余地;而后者是义务。
我一直把它放在心上。

我就是这样,
对于有些芝麻绿豆的事情超级执著,
而应该做好的本分却得过且过,
混混沌沌的一天过一天,
蹉跎岁月,更是浪费资源。

虽然说把小事做好,
大事自然就会更完好,
但是人生短短几十载,
有些事情真的不用太在意,
看得太重有时反而伤得更深,
释怀吧!

哭一天,笑一天
何不快乐每一天

你多久没有不顾形象的开怀大笑了?

''My Story - Yip"




Love this video at first sight. The way it's presented. The message it brings with us.
It has uncovered the long-hidden feeling of mine once and again.

What if the person in need of blood transfusion to prolong his/her life is someone that you know or someone who is close to you?

This assumption is arguably good and not-good.

Good as in it encourages you to think in the shoes of others and contribute.
Not-good in the sense that it doesn't need to be someone you know for you to do something good.

So let's practise good deed

and

as mentioned

Let us united by blood.
Not divided by race.

*Spread the love*